Proverbs Study – Lesson 44 (Proverbs chapter 29:11-18)
V. 11 When you speak your mind you often live to regret it. Anger spoken in haste cannot possibly hit the mark not having all the facts or details known. He reminds us here that it is a fool who speaks their mind, especially when angry. It says in Prov. 17:28 that even a fool appears to be wise when they do not speak. The main point here is that we do not respond foolishly by speaking prematurely, giving it some time before we answer or commit ourselves waiting until most or all of the details of the situation are know. Details and motives are not always easily discerned and often come to light afterword. Holding our tongue in the moment is wise. After words when the facts are on the table the situation will need wise council found in choice words to a good situation.
V. 12 It is a sad state of affairs when all a ruler wants to hear is lies. When this is the case he is not looking for answers but excuses to do what he wants to do and not what is most prudent. The problem with this approach is that before long all of the king’s advisers are found to be wicked or self-serving saying and doing only what ultimately has benefit for them. When the time comes when truth is needed to remedy a situation there will be no good advice found. It is a prudent thing for us also to seek truth for answers instead of looking for answers that may be more appealing to our pride or selfish wants. Our present culture today seems to want to hear answers that feel good instead of the truth that contains the right answer not always have a good feeling attached to it. If we are not careful, we will end up in the same place as this king, not having any advisers left to give us truth when we desperately need it.
V. 13 This verse seems to be a variation of Prov. 22:2. Different versions render differing definitions of the meaning of the latter individual. Some render him to be a creditor, some render the rich, some render him as an oppressor, or here in the KJV he is rendered as deceitful. It is not entirely clear as to who Solomon meant this to be. In looking at this verse, however, it is good to remember that there are always two sides to an agreement. It is not always that one side is right and the other always the oppressor, for the rich and poor will always need to meet in this world and work out the details for some reason not being able to exist without each other in this world.
First we need to come to terms with the fact that yes, the Lord is the maker of them BOTH. Both parties have terms and aspects of the agreement or purpose of their meeting that are important. Both parties may have just causes and details that must be met and worked through. The same Golden Rule applies to both the poor and the creditor. We know that if it was a perfect world that Solomon would advocate that we, the poor or otherwise, would never become the borrower or the one in need of something in an agreement, for in doing so he made the statement that you become a slave to the lender. But, also knowing that such situations will exist that the agreement involves two people, the emphasis on people, both having obligations and terms inherent to the agreement. However, here, it could be that a possible meaning and rendition of this verse could be that God gives wisdom and insight into dealing with such things if we are willing to work them through. Yes, there is an agreement, but the answer to both parties is not always in the black and white. In other words it may take God’s involvement to work out the details to make this situation work out. There is a way. There is an answer, if the parties are willing to be guided by God. God can illumine their heart giving them the right answers as they work out the details.
V. 14 Fair goes a long way. Here it refers to a king faithfully treating his subjects honestly and fairly. But, the same can be said for us. If we treat our friends and acquaintances justly and honestly we are sure to establish a network of people that will establish our life and existence forever. Treating people this way builds solid relationships that last forever. Whether they are friend or business connection it is hard to resist the request that is fair and just from someone that has proved themselves in the past being found not to have the reputation of taking advantage of others putting other’s needs first. Here it is significant that he mentions judging the poor, for if a king is going to rule unjustly he will usually take advantage of the poor first.
V. 15 Kids need guidance. Left to their own they may find their way eventually, but will suffer mercilessly first having to learn life the hard way. Some lessons learned are hard and need the firm hand of guidance encompassing a variety of methods and means. However, the guidance is meant for a child’s benefit and betterment and not for venting frustration or anger. By making firm decisions in love a child can be spared sometimes a lifetime of pain that could have been avoided.
V. 16 It’s pretty obvious to realize that when the number of bad or wicked people increases then the numbers of wicked acts or transgressions are bound to go up also. But, even though the increase is expected it is still troubling to good people. The righteous know what’s on the way when there is a trend toward a rise in the number of bad people. The crime rate is sure to rise and the rights of good people are apt to be derailed. Not a good scene. But, there are some encouraging words found here telling the righteous to stay true and stay the course saying that if we do that righteous acts will eventually win out seeing the wicked and their acts tumble and fall making it a safe place to live again. The Apostle Paul said it this way, ‘Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord’, I Cor. 15:58. This is good advice in difficult times!
V. 17 Sometimes some may think that it is too much work to train your child, but this verse tells us otherwise, telling us that in the end it is much more work not to train your child in the right ways of life. Untrained kids are out of control and it takes much more effort and energy to pick up the trail of destruction left behind telling you that they have been there. As kids grow so does their ability to either help or hurt. If trained to help others, treating others with respect and politeness, their presence makes the environment an even better place. However, if untrained, thinking only of themselves, get ready to work, for the trouble, mess and destruction left behind will be more that a parent can bear needing society to help them deal with the outcome. But, a well mannered child he says here is delightful giving pleasure not agony to all that are around them.
V. 18 Solomon here makes a very profound and important statement. The word vision here does not necessarily mean the common meaning of this word meaning something seen. And, it does not necessarily mean a vision or pictured plan for what can be. But, the Hebrew word rendered here refers to a vision or plan as given by God and not necessarily a plan developed by man. There were periods in the history of Israel when they had no direction from God and ultimately the nation fell into disarray not only going nowhere, but the nation became infected, so to speak, and infested with actions and plans that fragmented it and broke it apart. In this verse Solomon was not necessarily referring to a good plan of action formulated by a smart leader. That is not to say that such a plan cannot be helpful and necessary at times. God can be in that plan. But, here he makes the point that ultimately man was made for God and needs His direction and without it man will do himself in and parish. The end of this verse reminds us that God’s vision for man is found in His Law having His Law as the framework for His vision and will for man. He makes the point here that man being created for God is happy when he sees God’s way and input in our life giving us needed direction and guidance.